Quote Of The Day

"Victory goes to the player who makes the next-to-last mistake - Chessmaster Savielly Grigorievitch Tartakower (1887-1956)"

Wednesday, July 23, 2025

Till The Stars Come Down @ Theatre Royal Haymarket…

Last weekend we were lucky enough to treat Abby, over from New York, to dinner and show. Cocktails, dinner and show. Be At One, The Ivy, and a little production we knew she would like.

Sometimes a play comes along that just blows you away. And Till The Stars Come Down was just such a play. Everything comes together: the writing, the acting, the casting, the tone, the simple set, the lighting, the glitterball – everything. We just loved it when we saw it first time. And knew we would again. We would be watching the transfer - having loved the original National production earlier on in the year. 


So as Abby, Stuart and I took our seats at the Theatre Royal Haymarket in London’s glitzy West End last Saturday night drinks in hand, we knew what to expect. 


True to life, a little bit sad, thoroughly relatable, and very, very funny – the play takes place over a single day: a wedding day.


When the action first starts, you think, “OK, so this seems like rather familiar territory. A wedding. Can it really show us anything new? We’ve seen dozens of wedding day dramas and comedies.” How wrong you are to even question it. The play cames hurtling out the traps like a prize greyhound. We were laughing at the first line.


The family consisted of three sisters (think Chekhov meets The Royle Family), where the youngest, Sylvia, beautifully played by Sinead Matthews – is the one getting married, to Polish boy Marek – portrayed with warmth and pathos by Julian Kostov. Sylvia’s two sisters, Maggie (Aisling Loftus, sharp and grounded) and Hazel (Lucy Black, quietly devastating), are both on hand and determined the day goes off without a hitch – in every sense of the word. Not everyone approves of the match.


Enter stage right: their fantastically gobby aunt Carol – played with absolute relish by Dorothy Atkinson – who burst in with the line, “I don’t know my arsehole from my fanny this morning.” You get the picture.


And then the men arrived: the aforementioned Marek; the sisters’ dad Tony – played with weary gravitas by Alan Williams; estranged Uncle Pete – a firecracker performance from Philip Whitchurch; and Hazel’s husband John – played with quiet strength by Adrian Bower. And from there, all hell broke loose. Old rivalries, miners’ strike grievances, family feuds, sexual tensions, sexual politics, European politics, and yes, lots and lots of knob gags. It had it all.


As the wedding day unfolded and the secrets began to surface, there were genuine gasps from the audience. We’d all bought into the family dynamic – perhaps it was the audience sing-along that sealed it. We were invested. That’s the power of good writing.


So, when the ending came, it was a real gut-punch. A genuine shock.


At the blackout, the audience was stunned into silence for a few thudding heartbeats – before erupting into rapturous applause.


Stuart and I loved it all over again. I think Abby did too.


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Monday, July 21, 2025

Tim’s Big Gay Picnic 2025…

We had a lovely big gay teddy bear’s picnic in Regent’s Park yesterday with the gang 🧸🌳☀️ Thanks to Tim for organising it all!


#TeddyBearsPicnic #BigGayPicnic #RegentsParkVibes #GayJoy #PicnicSeason #LGBTQCommunity #SunshineAndFriends #GayLondon #PrideVibes 
























Friday, July 18, 2025

Giant @ Harold Pinter Theatre...

Last night, Stuart and I went to see Giant at the Harold Pinter Theatre (in glitzy central London, right off Leicester Square).

It's a very well staged, beautifully acted reclamation project — an attempt to wring gold from the morally dubious ore that is Roald Dahl. 


Let’s be clear: I’ve never liked Dahl. Not as a child, not as an adult. Even before his antisemitism was widely known about and discussed, his stories struck me as smug and mean-spirited. Now, with the context of his public bigotry, that sour note is impossible to ignore.


And yet - here we are. In this bold, slick production, the cast-iron cast turns literary lead into theatrical gold. 


The excellent John Lithgow as Dahl, the fabulous Aya Cash @maybeayacash, brilliant Elliot Levey @elliotlevey, great Rachael Stirling @rachael.stirling.77, funny Richard Hope @richardhopeuk, and super Tessa Bonham Jones @tessabonhamjones all deliver performances that transcend the source material, injecting humanity and complexity where Dahl offered only caricature in his works.


Credit to Sir Nicholas Hytner @hytner and the team at @haroldpintertheatre, who have transformed their space into a broken down domestic dystopia, both intimate and strange. It's a stylish triumph, even if the ghost of the original author looms a little too large.


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Wednesday, July 16, 2025

Feel The Sound @ BarbicanCentre…

Last week I got sonically molested (lovingly) at Feel the Sound exhibition @BarbicanCentre. 

Subwoofer benches, vibrating gourds, AI music boxes, and a techno rave in a car park. It was like a hug from your weirdest friend’s stereo. #FeelTheSound

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Monday, July 14, 2025

“They will in a minute…"

A little girl was in a drawing lesson. She was 6 years old and sat at the back drawing. 

She hardly ever paid attention in most classes but in this class she did.

The teacher was fascinated by her and went over and asked her, "What are you drawing?"

The girl said, "I'm drawing a picture of God."

Taken aback, the teacher said, "Ok. Ok.”

Then added, “But nobody knows what God looks like."

And the girl replied, "They will in a minute."


(Okay I’m an atheist, but I’ve always loved this story. The brilliant confidence of the young always makes me smile.)




Sunday, July 13, 2025

Justin Vivian Bond @ Soho Walthamstow…

Last night Stuart & I went to see Justin Vivian Bond’s Sex With Strangers at the iconic Soho Walthamstow.

We were absolutely riveted. Bond (@mxviv), backed by their ace five‑piece band led by musical director Matt Ray, conjured up an evening of cabaret steeped in Marianne Faithfull lore. From the smoky “Broken English” to the haunting “Ballad of Lucy Jordan,” there wasn’t a wrong note or story in sight.


The venue itself, a beautifully restored art‑deco gem on Walthamstow high street, gleamed with glitzybar lights and boasted an intimate atmosphere that transformed every anecdote - from Bond’s Dairy Queen epiphany to tales from the Faithfull archives - into electrifying theatre. 


Special mention to guitarist/singer Nath Ann Carrera and the effortlessly chic Matt Ray’s band. 


Big cheers to @sohotheatre for hosting such a bold and soulful night out.


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